| 1. Plan the party length with your
child's age in mind. 1 1/2 hours is enough for your 1-3 year-old and 2 1/2
to 3 hours is appropriate for a 10 year old. If you plan to serve lunch or
dinner, add 1/2 hour.
2. Call your child's best friend to make
sure they can make the party date before you invite the other guests. This
gives you the opportunity to pick a different date so your child has their
special friend at their party.
3. Send your invitations out at least 2
weeks before the party date.
4. Plan more games to play then you'll
have time for. This allows you to go on to another game if your guests aren't
having fun, or if you finish the games faster than you planned.
5. Play "everyone wins" games. Musical
chairs has only one child smiling at the end of the game. Try playing the
game by removing only the chairs. All the kids stay in the game trying to
fit on the chairs that are left. Everyone will be smiling during this
game.
6. Make sure you, the parent, have fun
yourself. Having as much of the party pre-planned will help. If you are having
a theme to your party, dress-up yourself and get involved!
7. Plan the first activity to keep your
guests busy while you wait for late arrivals. The activity should make everyone
feel welcome at the party.
8. Take a Polaroid photo of each child
when they arrive. Place a photo at each place setting. When you call them
to the table for cake, they'll sit down in front of their picture. The photo
can go home as a party memento.
9. Plan a table activity to keep your guests
busy while you're getting the cake and drinks ready.
10. Plan a quiet game at the end of the
party. Your party favor bags can include a toy for this purpose, or have
everyone watch the video of the party.
Your child's birthday is a special day
for you and your child. I can remember each of my children's parties and
it helps me remember their younger years which can go by so quickly. A birthday
party lets your child know they are special to you and their friends. It
is an opportunity for you to share this special time together. Can you remember
your own parties as a child? Stop the clock on every birthday and soak up
the moment. Children all agree, the best parties are given by family.
Lou Anne McKeefery
SimpliFun Studios
2070 Stratford Dr.
Milpitas, CA 95035
800 850-4-FUN in US
408 946-8632 |